Wednesday, July 30, 2014

A00045 - Margot Adler, NPR Journalist and Priestess

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Margot Adler in 2006.CreditMichael Paras/NPR
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Margot Adler, a longtime correspondent for NPR who was also a recognized authority on, and a longtime practitioner of, neo-pagan spiritualism, died on Monday at her home in Manhattan. She was 68.
Her death, from cancer, was announced by NPR.
Ms. Adler joined NPR, then known as National Public Radio, in 1979 and was variously a general-assignment reporter, the New York bureau chief and a political and cultural correspondent.
She was the host of NPR’s “Justice Talking,” a weekly program about public policy broadcast from 1999 to 2008, and was heard often on “All Things Considered” and “Morning Edition.”
She reported on a wide array of subjects, among them the Ku Klux Klan, the AIDS epidemic, the 9/11 attacks, Hurricane Sandy, the Harry Potter phenomenon and the natural world.
Ms. Adler was also a self-described Wiccan high priestess who adhered to the tradition for more than 40 years.
She was the author of “Drawing Down the Moon: Witches, Druids, Goddess-Worshippers, and Other Pagans in America Today” (1979), a book that both documented contemporary pagan movements and was credited with helping ignite heightened interest in them.
Reviewing the volume in The New York Times Book Review, Richard Lingeman called it “a comprehensive account,” adding: “Given the lurid connotations the subject has acquired,” Ms. Adler’s book stood as “a healthy corrective.”
The daughter of Kurt Alfred Adler and the former Freyda Nacque, Margot Susanna Adler was born on April 16, 1946, in Little Rock, Ark., and reared on the Upper West Side of Manhattan.
Her father was a psychiatrist who helped continue the work of his father, the distinguished Viennese psychiatrist Alfred Adler, who was first an ally and later an ideological adversary of Freud.
Ms. Adler graduated from the High School of Music and Art and enrolled at the University of California, Berkeley, where she was active in the free speech, civil rights and antiwar movements.
After earning a bachelor’s degree in political science from Berkeley, she received a master’s from the Columbia University Graduate School of Journalism. In 1982, she was a Nieman fellow at Harvard.
Before joining NPR, Ms. Adler was affiliated with WBAI in New York, serving as the original host of “Hour of the Wolf,” a show exploring the work of noted science fiction writers. The show has been hosted by Jim Freund since 1974.
Ms. Adler’s husband, John Lowell Gliedman, a psychologist, computer consultant and science writer whom she married in 1988, died in 2010. Survivors include their son, Alex Dylan Gliedman-Adler.
Her other books include “Vampires Are Us: Understanding Our Love Affair With the Immortal Dark Side,” published this year, and a 1997 memoir,“Heretic’s Heart: A Journey Through Spirit & Revolution.”
Ms. Adler was drawn to neo-paganism in the early ’70s, she said, because its invocation of ancient goddesses appealed to her feminism and its ecological concerns resonated with her love of nature.
In her sprawling apartment, on Central Park West, she maintained a pagan shrine in her bedroom and had formerly helped lead “a small coven” in the living room, The Times reported in 1991.
Though witchcraft was for Ms. Adler a serious endeavor, it also furnished an outlet for her constitutional puckish humor. To report a Halloween piece for NPR, she once outfitted herself with vampire teeth and took to the microphone.
She drew the line, however, at the rustic, gnarled-handled broom she kept in her kitchen. In 1991, when a reporter from The Times visited her apartment, Ms. Adler declared in no uncertain terms that she was not to be photographed alongside it.

Monday, July 28, 2014

A00044 - Skye Bartusiak, Young Actress in "The Patriot"

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Skye McCole Bartusiak at the 2008 Kids’ Choice Awards.CreditAlberto E. Rodriguez/Getty Images
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Skye McCole Bartusiak, who portrayed Mel Gibson’s young daughter in the 2000 film “The Patriot,” was found dead in her Houston home on Saturday. She was 21.
Ms. Bartusiak’s mother, Helen Bartusiak, told The Associated Press that her daughter had been living in a garage apartment at her parents’ home and that her boyfriend discovered her unresponsive on her bed. She said that she had been healthy and did not drink or take drugs, and that the family did not know the cause of death. She later told CNN that her daughter had had epileptic seizures recently.
Ms. Bartusiak was born in Houston on Sept. 28, 1992. She made her acting debut in the television mini-series “Storm of the Century” in 1999 and had a role on “24” in 2002-3.
Her first film was “The Cider House Rules,” in 1999, and she appeared with Michael Douglas in “Don’t Say a Word” (2001). Her most recent movie was “Sick Boy” (2012).
She was best known for her role in “The Patriot,” a Revolutionary War epic starring Mel Gibson and directed by Roland Emmerich. She played the youngest child of Mr. Gibson’s character, a militia leader.

Saturday, July 12, 2014

A00043 - Lillian Rubin, Sociologist and Psychotherapist



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Lillian B. Rubin, a sociologist and psychotherapist who wrote a series of popular books about the crippling effects of gender and class norms on human potential, died June 17 at her home in San Francisco. She was 90.
Her daughter, Marci Rubin, confirmed the death.
Dr. Rubin wrote a dozen books and hundreds of magazine and online articles in later years that explored the fault line between the received truths of contemporary life and people’s real lives.
She asked why the American dream was a Sisyphean heartbreak for so many in “Worlds of Pain: Life in the Working-Class Family”(1976), examined the identity crisis of middle-aged women in“Women of a Certain Age: The Midlife Search for Self” (1979) and considered why marriage so often fails in “Intimate Strangers: Men and Women Together” (1983).
The first expectation gap she plumbed, she said, was her own. She graduated from high school at 15 but was 39 before she enrolled in college. By landing a secretarial job straight out of high school, she said, she had fulfilled her family’s highest expectations.
“For a girl of my generation and class, college was not a perceived option,” she wrote in the introduction to “Worlds of Pain.” To her mother, a seamstress, “a daughter who worked at a typewriter in a ‘clean’ office — yes, this was a high achievement.”
She was married at 19, had a daughter and worked at various jobs for over 20 years before beginning her university studies in 1963. By the early 1970s, she had become a clinical psychotherapist and earned a Ph.D. in sociology from the University of California, Berkeley.
Insights she gained from her own reinvention set the course for much of her later research, she wrote.
Her books examined not only how grand social forces limit individuals’ expectations, but also how some teachers, religious leaders and parents enforce those limits, burdening children with debased views of themselves.
In “The Transcendent Child: Tales of Triumph Over the Past” (1996), Dr. Rubin explored why some people are crushed by such impediments in early life and why others manage to overcome them.
“I experienced all the insecurity of poverty and the pain of discovering that my teachers looked upon my widowed, immigrant mother as ignorant and upon me as a savage child,” she wrote in her introduction to “Worlds of Pain.” “I learned young to be ashamed.”
In a phone interview after Dr. Rubin’s death, Marci Rubin said “The Transcendent Child” was her mother’s most personal book. “It went to the heart of her trying to figure out who she was,” she said.
Lillian Breslow was born in Philadelphia on Jan. 13, 1924. Her parents, Sol and Rae Breslow, met and married in the United States after their families had immigrated from Ukraine, where they and other Jews had been attacked during ultranationalist pogroms after World War I. Both worked in the garment industry.
Lillian’s father died when she was 5, and her mother took her and her older brother, Leonard, to live with relatives in the Bronx. Dr. Rubin wrote poignantly about her relationship with her mother, who worked long hours and pushed her children to succeed in life.
The trouble, she wrote, was her mother’s different definitions of success for boys and girls. While urging her son to get a college education, she pushed Lillian to “marry up,” meaning a college-educated man. Four years after graduating from high school, she wrote, “I did just that.” Her first marriage, to Seymour Katz, a certified public accountant, ended in divorce in 1959.
She met her second husband, Hank Rubin while working as a political organizer for progressive Democratic candidates in Los Angeles, where she and Mr. Katz had moved in the mid-’50s. They married in 1962.
Dr. Rubin entered Berkeley as a freshman in 1963 and received her B.A. four years later. She earned her Ph.D. in 1971. After receiving postgraduate training as a psychotherapist, she began a dual career as a sociological researcher and a private therapist. She was appointed a senior research associate at the Institute for the Study of Social Change at Berkeley, where she worked for many years while writing her books.
Besides her daughter, Dr. Rubin is survived by a grandson and a great-grandson. Hank Rubin died in 2011.
All of Dr. Rubin’s books were based on interviews with her subjects — hundreds of them for some books — leavened with sociological commentary written in an accessible style.
Dan Cryer, reviewing “Just Friends: The Role of Friendship in Our Lives” in The Miami Herald in 1985, praised Dr. Rubin as “the kind of writer who gives pop psychology a good name.”
“Just Friends,” “Intimate Strangers” and “Women of a Certain Age” were best sellers. “Worlds of Pain” and a 1994 follow-up, “Families on the Fault Line,” continue to be standard texts on many university campuses.
In later years, Dr. Rubin wrote often for the online journal Salon about politics, culture and the unpleasant — and, she said, rarely discussed — realities of aging. Sixty was not the new 40, she wrote, and 80 was not the new 60.
Old age is “a time of loss, decline and stigma,” Dr. Rubin wrote, and no one gains by denying it. At 88, she admitted, she had mixed feelings about living, and mixed feelings about dying.
“Ambivalence reigns,” she wrote, “in death as well as in life.”